Blog from my team member Laura. . . 

"Some weddings follow tradition. Others take the traditions they like, leave behind the ones they don't, and create something entirely their own. Nic and Sara's wedding at Frimley Hall Hotel was exactly that: personal, joyful and unmistakably theirs. 

The day arrived with soaring temperatures and dramatic, moody skies rolling overhead. It was the perfect backdrop for a celebration full of personality, laughter and love. When I arrived, Nic and Sara were doing everything they could to stay cool before the ceremony. Their beautifully tailored bespoke suits were still waiting for the right moment, while they relaxed in shorts, shirts, and matching Pride socks, determined to delay the extra layers for as long as possible. 

What made the day even more special was that their wedding had actually begun much earlier. Knowing that neither of them enjoys being the centre of attention, Nic and Sara had chosen to exchange private vows together that morning before any guests arrived. It was a quiet, intimate moment that belonged entirely to them; a chance to share promises away from the spotlight before celebrating with the people they love most. And that really set the tone for the whole day. 

Their guest list was made up solely of close family and friends. There were no distant relatives, no obligatory invitations, just the people who mattered most. As guests gathered in the front gardens of Frimley Hall Hotel, the excitement was palpable. They were welcomed into the ceremony space with songs from Nic and Sara's joint hen celebration, and danced their way into the ceremony room, setting a wonderfully relaxed and joyful atmosphere from the very start. 

Before the couple joined us, we took part in a ring warming ceremony. The wedding rings were passed between guests, giving everyone the opportunity to hold them briefly and silently share their wishes, hopes and love for the couple's future together. It created a lovely sense of connection before the ceremony had even begun. 

There were plenty of laughs too. Guests took selfies to send to Nic and Sara while they waited and joked about the fact that throughout the ceremony, we would be using the couple's formal names. As it turned out, many of the people in the room hadn’t heard those names for many years! When Nic and Sara entered the ceremony room, there were definitely a few nerves. Like many couples who don't naturally enjoy being the focus of attention, they looked a little awkward at first. But as the ceremony unfolded, surrounded by people who knew and loved them best, those nerves quickly gave way to smiles, laughter and genuine joy. 

The ceremony included two beautiful readings, read by their best friends, alongside the story of how Nic and Sara met, fell in love and built the life that had brought them to this moment. Their friend Josh had the honour of being the ring bearer, while a couple close to them, Jen and Paul, signed the commemorative certificate as witnesses. And then came one of the most memorable exits I've ever had the pleasure of witnessing!

As newlyweds, Nic and Sara walked back down the aisle to I Kissed a Girl by Katy Perry, a choice that perfectly captured their humour, confidence and willingness to do things their own way. 

The celebrations that followed included many familiar wedding touches: a toastmaster, a sweet table, a post box for cards and even a telephone guestbook where loved ones could leave recorded messages. Yet despite these traditional elements, nothing about the day felt conventional. Every decision reflected Nic and Sara's personalities. Every choice felt intentional. Every moment felt authentic. And that's exactly what made it so special. 

It's weddings like these that remind me why I love being a celebrant. Being trusted to create a ceremony that reflects a couple's personality, values and relationship is an incredible privilege. 

At the end of the day, you walk away knowing you've helped create something completely bespoke: an experience that feels true to the people at its heart. Nic and Sara's wedding wasn't about meeting expectations or following a script. It was about celebrating their love, in their way, surrounded by their favourite people. And it couldn't have been more perfect. 

It was a privilege to be part of, and I wish them many happy years of joy and love together. 

Big Love to you both, Laura xx"