Today was an honour to lead the ceremony for Edward, your beloved son, brother, cousin, and nephew.

I wanted to share this private blog with you so that you can look back and remember all that you have done in his memory.  It was such an incredible memorial and celebration of his life and you should all be very proud.

When you first asked me to create today's ceremony I was overwhelmingly touched that you were entrusting this special service to me, and I have found the process of reading all about Edward, completely humbling.

Today was very emotional for everyone, and yet heartwarming to see that so many cared so much about him.

With the permission of Richard, I took a few photos from today, and I have included them in this blog.

"You will of course all have your own memories of Edward, pieces of a jigsaw that when put together make for a wonderful insight into his life, and that is just what we will do today.

 
In this special place this morning, we will put together all of those pieces, and we will hear about Edward’s character, his life, his interactions and the impact that he has had on everyone.  

I have no doubt there will be tears, there will be smiles and even laughter because it is ok to do all of those things and it is great to remember."  
 

"I cannot be with you today, 
sitting by your side,
But I do share this day with you, 
and I know that you will have cried.

Your stories and your caring words 
are a way to remember me
I am sad to have left you, 
but sadly this is how it was to be.  

 I may not be here to see the sunrise, 
and I may no longer hear the sea
But through you all, I can be everywhere
You carry the memory of me.

Do not let grief be a burden, 
Let me whisper in your ear . . .
through your memories, I’ll always be with you,
I’ll always be near”

I do hope you all find some peace once things have settled, and that the adjustment to the new 'normal' is free from pain.

Your incredible family have the love of each other, and from what I saw and heard today, you also have the love and support from a lot of other people too.  Everyone had such wonderful things to say about Ed, and I know that by no means takes away from your loss, but do take comfort in their words, and be kind to yourselves as you slowly mend broken hearts.

I send you all much love.

Jenny 

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